Maria called Dietrich in January 1943 and told him that she wanted to abide by her mother’s insistence on waiting a year, but that she was determined to marry him then.  From that time on, they regarded themselves as engaged, even though though no one other than Eberhard Bethge knew about it.

(Renate Bethge, Dietrich Bonhoeffer: A Brief Life, 63)

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